This is a delicate situation. Maybe you’ve been married for a while, maybe not. Asking the woman you love to have elective surgery on her breasts is a big, big deal and needs to be handled with tender love and kindness. You also need to throw in some strategy for getting your idea met with approval, and not getting a glass of wine in your face.
Compliments First
First of all, deliver the good news to your wife. Talk about the parts of her body that you like…her face, her skin, her smile, her legs. These body parts should be good friends of yours by now, and you should have some kind words for them. You are accentuating the positive here, what you love about her and how much you adore her.
Know Your Wife
Now that you have laid the groundwork, it’s time to go to work on the breasts. There are several avenues of conversation possible. First, if you’ve been with your wife for more than a year or so, you probably have an idea of what she thinks about breast jobs, right? Maybe you have friends who have had breast jobs, maybe you’ve seen celebrities and models with breast implants. From these conversations you will know generally how she feels about breast implants or a breast lift.
If She’s Open-Minded, Go Direct
If you think she’s open to the idea, the direct approach to conversation is best. This really is the tricky part. You want your wife to know how much you love her but that she also could improve her physical appearance even more by having a breast job. A natural looking breast enhancement, something that gives the girls more volume to fill out that push up bra. Whatever you do, don’t say, “You should have this done, you really need it.” You are not ordering her to have a breast job, you are trying to convince her that she wants a breast job. If you want it, you may have to sell it very, very softly.
The Sales Pitch and the Quid Pro Quo
What’s in it for her? Better cleavage, a more youthful experience, and a special reward from you to thank her for taking your suggestion kindly and for acting on it. What is that special reward? You decide what your wife would desire the most and return her favor with one of your own. Maybe you could take your wife on vacation to the beach so she can show off her new breasts? Now that’s hot!
If She’s Not Entirely Open to the Idea
If you think your wife is not open to the idea of having a breast job, there may not be any way to sell the idea. Really. Express your opinion, try to sell it as best you can but don’t hammer the idea over her pretty little head. Maybe she just needs time to process the idea so don’t give up hope on those bigger, firmer better breasts.
Whatever the case is, remember why you got together with your sweetheart and remember that no matter what, time marches on and the human body is beautiful as it is. She's gorgeous and she's in your life. Sometimes perfection can't be messed with.
